※ [本文轉錄自 love 看板] 作者: gospel (非常女貓) 看板: love 標題: 我終於瞭解 時間: Thu May 25 14:13:31 2000 作者:unknown 我終於瞭解 I Have Learned.... 1.我終於了解- 你無法強迫別人愛你。 你所能做的,是使自己成為可愛的人。 此外,則不是你所能決定的。 I've learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. 2.我終於了解- 不論我如何付出關懷, 有些人就是無動於衷。 I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. 3.我終於了解- 建立起信任,需費時多年, 但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。 I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. 4.我終於了解- 重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西, 而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。 I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. 5.我終於了解- 你可以藉由魅力達到目的, 但只能維持15分鐘。 此後,你最好要有些真材實料。 I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something. 6.我終於了解- 你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比, 而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。 I've learned - that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best you can do. 7.我終於了解- 重要的不是發生在人們身上的事, 而是他們對那事的反應。 I've learned - that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. 8.我終於了解- 你在瞬間所做的事, 可以叫你心痛一輩子。 I've learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. 9.我終於了解- 不論你切得多薄, 事情總是具有兩面。 I've learned - that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. 10.我終於了解- 需要經歷很長的時日, 才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。 I've learned - that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. Author: Unknown回到上一層