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標  題: 處理沮喪
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     金句:耶和華的使者第二次來拍他，說：「起來吃吧！因為你當走的路甚遠。」

                             (列王紀上19:7)

     處理沮喪

     當家裡有人沮喪時，我們能怎樣幫忙？待他或她如同神待以利亞。耶和華供給
     以利亞身體上的需要，不責備他也不表示憐憫，但祂的確在傾聽。神提供訊息
     來糾正以利亞因沮喪而造成的錯誤認知。祂指派特定工作給以利亞去做。
     神準備了一個夥伴作為他的朋友及追隨者。沮喪的人通常對「振作起來！」的
     話語沒有反應，但他們通常對花時間陪他們、關愛的表情以及你對他們以及他
     們的未來靜默的信心有所反應。
                                                (摘自父母聖經日曆四月九日)


     The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched (Elijah)
     and said,"Get up and eat,for the journey is too much for you."
                              1 kings 19:7

     Handling depression

     How can we help when a family member is depressed? Treat him or her
     as God treated Elijah. The lord provided for Elijah's phisical needs.
     The Lord didn't condemn or express pity,but he did listen. The Lord
     provided information to correct the misperception caused by Elijah's
     depression.The Lord assigned Elijah a sepecific task to do. And the
     Lord provided a companion to be a friend and follower.People who are
     depresed don't often respond to "cheering up." But they will often
     respond to time spent with them,to your expressions of caring and to
     your quiet confidence in them and their future.
                                 (from the parent Bible calendar, April 9)


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